THE REAL MEANING OF HAPPINESS

Happiness have different meanings for everyone. Some people consider their job, children, spouse, money source of their happiness and some may find happiness in materials but this is not the real happiness, it's temporary and dependent on others and it will vanish as quick as it wasn't even there. The trouble starts, when we search happiness in the outside world, when we seek pleasures in things and people.

Most of us in the present age don't know what happiness even is. Do you remember when were you happy the last time? When your dad/husband/sister brought you new phone? You call it happiness? It's not happiness but just a misconception, misconception we all have. Happiness is not dependent on materials, people or places it is something your heart consist of, it's there even when you don't have anything extra ordinary in life. You can feel it around you, you can be in it. Because the truth is no matter how tough our life becomes happiness is always with us. It is us who decide and label the time and the feeling "happy" "sad" "hard" "easy". The nature of time is happy, the type of time is simple and the habit of time is to run continuosly.It is humans who decides to be sad in a happy moment and He/She is also a human who is happy in the most difficult times because he knows whatever the difficulty is, it will not last long, problem can be powerful but not more than the strength of a person who knows how to be happy 24/7.We have made everything so much complicated, we let little things ruin our happiness, we are giving so much power to the things that doesn't require our minor attention, we are running for the pleasures without knowing that they are temporary.

As I said above, happiness is not a thing, neither it's a person. It is a sense of fulfilment, integrity, prosperity, wholeness and joy. You might be in stress, surrounded by millions of problems still you can be happy, dealing with a problem with complete courage and truthfulness is also a source of happiness. There is a sense around us all the time, we decide to name & label it. If we recognize it deeply then we'll know that it is nothing but a sense of wholeness try to feel it with all your soul and feed it in your mind that you already have what you need, your mind is a faithful servant of yours, it will act accordingly. Give yourself freedom to understand every aspect of this universe. That's where tranquility comes from when your heart and mind has less questions and more answers, when you are no more in conflict with yourself, you are not hustling anymore, staying calm and at peace.
Happiness is something you feel when you don't have much in life, when little moments bring smile on your face, when you feel peace within yourself everyday, when you don't rush things to get done because you know they will take time you don't feel lonely even when you are alone, when you rarely get bothered!! It is the moment when you breath happiness, when your happiness and peace isn't dependent on anyone it is the moment you can call yourself free. This is what real freedom is.